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Rich fantasy life
Sep. 2nd, 2014 05:44 amI am pathologically vanilla about sex. My attitude towards power and domination is so phobic that I don't want that stuff anywhere near my sex life. The healthy part is that I have no desire to keep others from doing it. Here Cecilia Tan, who writes excellent fiction about BDSM, has written a thoughtful discussion making clear that the line between fantasy and reality defines consent.
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Oct. 15th, 2009 06:24 am1. They never cheat.No wonder they don't exist
2. They always lend a helping hand.
3. They don't talk to strangers.
4. They respect the Earth.
5. They are never late.
6. They aren't conceited.
7. They don't judge people.
8. They always give 100%.
9. They graze on peace and love.
10. They don't do drugs.
Thanx to Shakesville
