Rich fantasy life

I am pathologically vanilla about sex. My attitude towards power and domination is so phobic that I don't want that stuff anywhere near my sex life. The healthy part is that I have no desire to keep others from doing it. Here Cecilia Tan, who writes excellent fiction about BDSM, has written a thoughtful discussion making clear that the line between fantasy and reality defines consent.

In case you were wondering whodunit

National Review lists "the 20 movies that effectively destroyed art."

I can haz too much cheeseburger

Why women don't like to be publicly told they're hot

Thanx to theweaselking