While I agree with the thesis, I would also say that having a lot of bad sex in my 20s, sometimes because I was just being polite, was invaluable in figuring out what I did and didn't like in bed. Sex is great, but bad or mediocre sex is not the end of the world, or even the end of the relationship. It's just, you know, not much fun. On the other hand, the one sure trick to ensure that I never slept with you again was to make me feel like I didn't really have a choice in the matter. I might, or might not, have had the sex, but that was absolutely the end of the relationship. Every time. I don't mind if you're bad in bed, there are work arounds for that. But man will I not forgive you for feeling entitled to my body.
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