yeah, I will sometimes gently shut down someone (male) when they say shit like that about their wives/wives-to-be because ew. At least I don't run into that sentiment often. Of course, some research shows that het marriage is good for men (and bad for women), so men maybe know they're getting a good deal even when they're complaining.
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Date: 2017-12-04 01:33 pm (UTC):(
Also, women contemplating marrying some man, there is a significant positive probability that you should be horrified and not do that.
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Date: 2017-12-05 01:06 pm (UTC)