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Arthur D. Hlavaty ([personal profile] supergee) wrote2017-10-03 06:40 am

Hef vs. Douche

Ross Douthat begins his dance on Hugh Hefner’s grave by accusing Hef of pornography leading to masturbation. Remembering that, for some reason, people won’t believe that Hefner is thereby responsible for untold millions of cases of blindness and insanity, Douthat goes on to pile on more charges, some of which stick.

Hefner came to prominence in Ross Douthat’s kind of world. Sex was a giant squid, far too scary to talk or think clearly about. Birth control and alternatives to PIV were illegal (though almost everyone got away with them). Abortion was illegal and particularly shameful. One could also go to jail for saying forbidden words onstage or printing pictures that showed pubic hair. The only controversy about gay people was whether they belonged in the jail or the bughouse.

Hefner challenged all of that, printing his nude pictures along with excellent fiction and nonfiction and editorials questioning the war on some drugs and the war on some Asians. To be sure, he pandered to acquisitiveness and display, and his last years were horrible for his harem and probably not all that much fun for him.

But I’m happy to live in the world Hef made. For one thing, when Ross Douthat proudly proclaims that when a pill-taking woman threatened his precious maidenhood, he ran off in terror, perhaps with a hand protectively cupped over his boy bits, we can laugh in his face.
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[personal profile] mrissa 2017-10-03 11:39 am (UTC)(link)
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[personal profile] ceemage 2017-10-03 06:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I figure you and Hefner are the Roosevelt & Stalin of the Sexual Revolution Wars - facing a common enemy, "allies" for the duration; but ultimately heading for different desired end-points. #OverExtendedMetaphorsRUs
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[personal profile] snippy 2017-10-04 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
He was actively opposed to feminism. His sexual world was the obverse of the 50s household, not a contradiction to it--he still wanted women to be objects, he just didn't want to have to bother doing any of the parts of family formation except sex.