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Arthur D. Hlavaty ([personal profile] supergee) wrote2016-09-26 09:14 am

Rude as a Pundit

The Times has an op-ed saying that introverts who don’t want to go to a lot of social events are really being rude. Reminds me of MRAs complaining about those sluts who won’t lay them.
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[personal profile] arlie 2016-09-26 03:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been using that metaphor privately for a while. Emotionally, having someone insisting on using my mind to service their desire for socialization has a certain amount in common with having someone insisting on using my body to service their sexual desires.

The biggest difference that I see is that the latter is currently less socially acceptable than the former, particuarly when it comes to outright rape. (Insisting that part of a woman's job is to be "eye candy" is another story :-()

And of course because of this difference, the comparison is "unrealistic hyperbole" etc.