Back in the day, it was assumed that people would not remain friends with their exes. nellorat's predecessor and I did, but we were part of that weird fandom culture, so presumably we didn't count. That approach may have had its advantages, given this case of a man invoking all sorts of newagey human relations stuff to stalk a former girlfriend. He is asking why she dropped him and probably demonstrating the answer.

Thanx to andrewducker